Saturday, January 31, 2015

Women Oppression


                Unfortunately, women oppression is still widely present in the world among us. Whether it appears in the physical form, verbal form, or societal form it is present throughout every country.

                Although it is not as pertinent in the United States as other countries, middle eastern countries per say, Americans also deal with women oppression. Specifically in the area of society, where women are still struggling for equality. This struggle is seen in literature through The Awakening, where Edna is stuck in an average American family and discovers that she has her own wishes and desires other than what has been implicated on her.

                Women in the Middle East experience women oppression through all three variables physically, verbally, and through their society. The society in the Middle East set women lower than men, where women are given much less rights than men. Rights such as education, where education is less available for women than it is for men. In the book A Thousand Splendid Suns, women oppression is shown through two amazing stories, Laila’s and Marian’s. The book not only unveils women oppression in the Middle East but also the strength these women have to persevere and remain strong for their children and the people they love. I truly admire the ability these women have to experience such oppression and continue to move on.

                It is important for us to not ignore women oppression, women are just as human as men there is no reason for any higher acclamation of either. Men are not greater than women, and women are not greater than men. This needs to be recognized entirely throughout the world, because where this mentality is not present, others are provoked.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Prufrock's Fear in today's culture

The poem "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" speaks of a lonesome man scared to be loved. He fears he is not adequate enough for the women of his days. Not only does he believe he is not physically qualified but he also fears he is not meant to "disturb the universe". In my opinion I believe Prufrock is making outrageous excuses to avoid admitting what his true fear is. He is afraid of love, to be loved, what love will do and how it will affect him. Another big fear of love is if it is lost after it is gained. This fear of love is present in society just as much today as it was with Prufrock in the early 1900's.

I believe the fear of love can be developed through experiences where love was mistreated. I also believe that the fear can be developed in oneself, either through avoidance of love or a grown fear. Today love deserves the fear that Prufrock had. I say this because love is used so carelessly now. Marriages fall apart only for those who got divorced to remarry and be divorced again, repeating the same abuse of love and not realizing the image of love they are creating not only for those around them but themselves. Not only marriages but relationships abuse the beauty of love also, it is unconsidered and replaced with selfish desires leading to a destroyed relationship and those in the relationship.

Love now consist of disloyalty, unhonesty, imprudence, and emptiness. No wonder why Prufrock was so scared to put himself out there no one wants a failed attempt at love.